Monday, February 21, 2011

"Those who are easily shocked should be shocked more often." - Mae West

Wow...  give your normally pretty reserved husband a gift card to Eden Fantasy (I won it!), and he just might surprise you!

I told him to pick out whatever he wanted, that I'm up for anything. 

I am trying to figure out how to not be so SHY here, which really isn't so different from my normal personality anywhere.  I told you, quiet librarian type.  And yet, here I am.  But then I might share with you what he chose.  It seems easier to share reviews on items I choose I suppose.  I am really hoping that both of us can loosen up enough to not hold back.  I think that is the ultimate in a turn on for me.  Not holding back.  I mean, it is definitely sweet that he cares and wants to treat me with kid gloves, but it's okay unleash the beast!  :)

I am feeling rather silly saying that we hold back.  We've been married for years and together even more years.  Sex is good.  We both enjoy it it, and maybe holding back is the wrong choice of words, but maybe we had gotten in to a bit of a rut.  And maybe it could be better.  And maybe neither of us has been sure how to go about kicking it up a notch.  Not all the time.  But sometimes.  And maybe we are both interested in a little more than plain vanilla.  I am running in circles here I think.  Surely it must make sense to someone.

Win a gift certificate to Jada Michaels!

Head on over to Flip Flop Reviews to win a gift certificate to Jada Michaels!

I love this Victorian Lace bustier.

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Win $55 to Eden Fantasy at So Called Mom

Not much time left on this one, but you can enter to win a $55 gift card to Eden Fantasy's over at So Called Mom.

Hurry, this ends tonight!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

I don't pretend to be an ordinary housewife. - Elizabeth Taylor

Hi there.  For the sake of this blog, you can just call me Winter. 

I'm just your average housewife by day.  But by night...  lets just say the ice melts. ;)  To be honest though, thus far my adventures have been rather tame.  I have only ever been with my husband, and there hasn't been a need to experiment much.  I have always been the...quiet librarian type.  But then don't they say it's always the quiet ones?  :)  I have a sneaking suspiscion though that both of us haven't suggested spicing things up more because we haven't been sure how the other would feel about it.  Why mess with a good thing?  Well, hopefully because however wonderful things are now, they could be even better if we open up more.

Here you can find reviews and giveaways of the not safe for work variety, many that will be chronicling my journey from tame to temptress.  Hope you find something that interests you. 

My first review should be up soon.  I contacted Susie Bright, the creator of I Dare You, and she was kind enough to put me in contact with her publicist who is mailing a copy of this game to me.  I can't wait to get the review up.    You can check it out in the link there by hovering over the name of the game, and it can be purchased at (a tasteful and women-friendly place to buy sex toys and vibrators, and anything else your heart desires).  I bet my husband would really enjoy Let's Play Doctor.  ;)  Do you have any other recomendations of games to help break the ice?

Saturday, February 5, 2011

"The Summer hath his joys, / And Winter his delights. / Though Love and all his pleasures are but toys, / They shorten tedious nights."
- Thomas Campion

"Lovers, forget your love And list to the love of these She a window flower And he a winter breeze ...”
 - Robert Frost

“Seek Love in the pity of others' woe,
In the gentle relief of another's care,
In the darkness of night and the winter's snow,
In the naked and outcast, seek Love there!”

“Make love now, by night and by day, in winter and in summer... You are in the world for that and the rest of life is nothing but vanity, illusion, waste. There is only one science, love, only one riches, love, only one policy, love. To make love is all the law, and the prophets.”